Mature girls.? well i have feelings for one of my closest female friends. It is my 21st birthday in about 2 months and then it is hers about 2 weeks later. So i am wondering if it is a a good idea to ask her out after my birthday and before hers.
The reason i am asking this is becasue i do not want to make it a bit uncomfortable. Since if she says no i do not want it is be weird when we see each other for her birthday. Also i would not know what present to give her on her birthday if she says no to me.
What do u girls suggest.
Btw i cannot ask her out until my birthday becasue i am only next seeing her on that day. I am in a different country atm and i am only coming back to the UK one day before meeting her lol |
| invite her after her b day... but between yoiur b day and hers.. ask her to go out.. and let her know the feeling that u have for her... then give her a nice nice present...... dont be cheap!! if u know that she wants something spceial.. then buy it... but on her bday give her 3 things... spcecial gift (that one that she wants) flowers, and chocolates or a candy... we girls love it!!!! |
What happened to Girls mature faster than Boys? Does it Apply to only Past Generations? Im a young man in college. I came here expecting to meet mature women but got the same stupid immature girls with high school mentality , why do girls now-a-days seem to be so immature? |
Maybe you are looking to meet girls in the wrong places?
When they say that girls mature faster, that refers to both physically (they start puberty much younger and boys have their growth spurts when they are older) and mentally. This is not to say that maturing college girls will always be very mature and serious and never want to have a laugh and a giggle and still have fun. Just because they may appear to be acting imature does not mean they are. In the same way that some guys who may seem mature does not mean that they are mature.
I think you really need to get to know someone or at least have a good conversation with them to guage their maturity levels.
Also just chill out and be yourself and you will meet people that you can relate to and get along with when the time is right. =) |
Can a group of guy friends be more mature than a group of girls? My girlfriend's friends are very jokey and guyish. They relay messages through each other to the person they like, and they're always saying really guyish jokes to each other. My group of guy friends actually have conversations where we talk about serious stuff, and we seem a lot more grown up than the girls. I don't want to seem pretentious, but I'm always hearing how girls mature much faster than boys, and from what I see, that's not the case. You think it's possible? |
| I think it really depends on what type of girls they are and what kind of guys you and your friends are. I think the whole "girls mature faster than boys" thing is only true half the time |
Do you agree with Denmark - girls mature faster than boys so parents send their boys to school 1 year later? This has the effect that on average, the boys do better than the girls in class at all subjects including language.
The graduate high school one year later than the girls but are more mature when they enter university and so do better. |
No. This forces gender stereotypes. What about boys who are mature? they get held back. Also all boys need is more encouragement and more male role models in schools and we need to get rid of the template of how guyren should behave is that of a girl i.e. docile, sit still, be quiet etc.. what if boys are not like this?
There are many reasons why boys are behind in school and it is definitely not biological. Girls have been helped with multi million dollar programs to close gaps where girls lag behind, practically nothing has been done to challenge gaps where boys are behind.
Also it is naive to think all girls are steaming ahead, there are many girls who are behind too. |
Why does everyone think that girls mature so much faster than boys? i'm a junior, and i'm dating a freshman guy. and i know guys my age dating freshman girls. it's okay for them, but weird that i do it. wtf. my boyfriend is very mature and so am i. but freshman girls that i see my guy friends dating are annoying and not mature at all. i don't think that girls are always more mature than boys, or even generally more mature than boys. girls are catty and rude and that's not mature. |
| i think it's totally fine for you to be dating a freshman. if youre happy, and he's an exception to the immature "norm", then your friends should understand and be happy for you! :D |
Why do girls mature faster than boys? I've noticed that girls mature a lot faster than boys, not only in terms of physical appearance but psychologically also. Is it something in built from nature to prepare for the responsibility of motherhood? |
Girls become women much sooner than boys become men. They (women) need to be ready physiologically as well as psychologically to be pregnant for nine months, deliver, and then raise another human being. For boys (in these terms, hardly fair to call them "men") it's a matter of a few seconds of awkward pleasure.
So your last sentence is right.
Never mind the nonsense of others about boys being this or that, and women being so much better/nicer/softer or whatever... |
Do girls really mature faster than boys, or is that just an old proverb? Its a fact that girls mature physically faster. But do they actually mature emotionally/mentally faster? And if you're going to answer, don't just tell me yes and point to how 'immature' boys act in high school or w/e. There are other reasons for this. Give me an actual fact and source. |
| Technically, it was never proven. People are just going by opinions. Physically, yes. Mentally, no one knows for sure. It seems that way, but until they prove it, we can't say anything. I personally think they mature at the same rate. Teenage girls are always suggesting how immature boys are and how mature they are, but I just don't see it. I'm a teen girl myself and all my teenage girl friends appear to be moody, hostile, whiny, and moronic. Just as the boys do. Sometimes the girls are even worse. |
Why is it that girls mature faster than guys physically, but not mentally? Do you think girls mature faster than guys mentally as well? I know the brain naturally grows and more neurons are created, however why is it that girls still remain seemingly emotionally retarded? Is it just the way most women are brought up in society and how they have to meet a certain image? |
| I believe in the opposite of what you are saying. I believe that boys mature much quicker physically (13-15 years old) than girls (around 17), but I think that girls mature much quicker than boys mentally. |
Is it true that girls mature quicker then guys? and if so why dose it seem like all the girls i know are way less mature then the guys, or dose it just depend on age? or maybe even the way you where brought up? |
I think it is a load of BS. In high school I probably seen over 20+ fights.
All between girls. If physical violence over gossip and more often then not jealousy is a sign of maturity then I never want to be considered mature.
That said I think it is more on an individual basis. I have already met very mature guyren and very immature adults.
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Thankfully it doesn't appear anyone has miss understood me yet.
What I meant was society allows for females in general to be more violent these days so of course there will be girls and women who take advantage of this.
That is why the rate of violence committed by females is going up.
Society has zero tolerance when males commit act's of violence so it is expected that the violence level stays the same or goes down, but rarely increases.
It is not that one gender is more mature or less violent then the other it is just that as human beings most of us when we see an advantage consciously or sub consciously we take advantage of it.
That is why I think maturity is based upon the individuals own personnel progress instead of genetics or whether the person has a male or female genitalia. |
What mature girls mean is in your opinion? I saw a question that a schoolgirl who just 17 at age. She said that she want to moving in with her boyfriend who is 18 years old.
Because the girl thinks that she is very mature.
And my question that what mature girls mean is in your opinion? |
| grown up enough 2 make their own decisions. in her case, naive enough 2 think she's grown |